Tuesday, May 31, 2022

If I Could Save Time in a Bottle ...

If I could save time in a bottle, the first thing that I'd want to do ... would be to buy a bigger bottle.

In my one week journey to live a more intentional life and try to fit in all I should do, along with all I want to do I have discovered my uncanny knack to use up whatever time I have at hand.

A weekend of not having to work in my day job(s) was bliss. Oh, sweet glorious time! But (surprise, surprise!), I filled up my time effortlessly. 

Between yard work, house work, meal planning and company (yes!!! I have actual face-to-face people contact and company on weekends!!), I barely had time to catch up on the backlog of puzzles I hadn't had time to do over the course of last week. 

This is actually a pleasant surprise. I accomplished small things every day. I cooked and ate well. I wasn't consumed by TV, Internet and my phone. I ended each day with a small list of things I wish I would have had time for. 

Time. Are we all masters of using up whatever time we are given? In an effort to simply add a few basics into my regular ordinary life, I am scrambling to find a new equilibrium. 

I tried adding 15 minutes of some extra-curricular stretching, yoga or some form of exercise to help strengthen, tone and make my body just a little more limber. Too much, too soon? 

Time is such a fleeting thing. If you could save time in a bottle how would you choose to fill it?

Monday, May 30, 2022

Planned Power Outage Alert

I was informed of a planned power outage between 9:30 and 11:30 a.m. at precisely 7:37 a.m. By approximately 8:38, I had made Impossible Bacon Pie, fried onions (so they would be ready if I decided to barbeque hot dogs for lunch), pealed potatoes for supper and sliced up the remaining onion and celery for tuna sandwiches.

One hour. Meal and lunch prep complete. Dishes washed. House smelling yummy from all the prepared foods.

One hour the day prior consisted of an hour frittered away on the computer, accomplishing little to nothing with my time.

Give me a deadline and I will meet or beat it. Give me all the time in the world and I will take it all and feel the need for more.

I cannot help but think if I knew I had a set amount of time to live, how much more I would accomplish with the finite amount of days at my disposal.

The only thing we know for sure, is that we are all going to die. If we lived our days with that in mind and made the most the moments at our disposal we would soon exhaust ourselves. Living intentionally - to make something of each day we are given sounds reasonable. Then life happens. Distractions can reroute our plans in a heartbeat. 

Perhaps if we manage our distractions to "real life", put down our phones, walk away from the computer and turn off the TV we could live just a little more intentionally. It's worth a try ...


Sunday, May 29, 2022

Nature Watching

I have always enjoyed watching the show birds put on in the spring, especially outside the city limits. When I was young and hopeful, the pairing up of birds in the spring tugged at my lonely heart as I wistfully thought of love and all of its entanglements. My feelings of "entanglement" has shifted over the years but I still love the sideshow of love-in-the-air as I make my way down life's highway.

Watching birds pairing off together sets the storyteller within my mind in motion. Ahhh ... nature, instincts, mating rituals, nesting and the arrival of baby birds sets my heart aflutter. As a parent with children between the ages of 24 and 44, I no longer wish for "baby birds" of my own but signs of new life stir up memories of a time when new life was dominant within my thoughts.

Early spring, my eyes are drawn toward the sky. The swooping, diving and little airshow the birds put on before they choose a mate. Next comes the pairing of birds in the courtship phase. Followed by the nesting stage. I am not a scientist and none of what follows is a proven fact but simple observances with a trace of facts retained from years gone by. 

What I have noticed about the birds in my own back yard is a Momma Bird appeared to be out shopping for just the right twigs and building material for the nest. As Momma swooped in and disappeared within a tree, Poppa was hot on her tail wings and found a spot in a neighboring tree out in the open where he chirped, made his presence known and diverted attention away from the home Momma Bird was building. Momma seemed to be a bit of a stickler for detail, as it took some time before she flew out of her hiding spot within the tree. Poppa escorted her as she went shopping for whatever she needed next. She didn't settle for anything on the ground beside her. It appeared she didn't want to attract attention to the actual location of her new family.

I thought I was watching a pair of blackbirds when I first noticed our new residents. Perhaps I was right and they got evicted by grackles. All I know for sure, is according to my bird identifier app grackles are the current resident. I hear grackles are a bit of an opportunist within the bird world and steal other birds' nests. I hope this couple built their home from scratch but I'll never know. 

Robins are building a nest in the blue spruce tree in the front. There is a lot of bird activity in our east-side yard. A robin with some nesting construction material caught my eye when it perched atop the lawn swing. The moment I noticed the twig in its beak, I watched to see where it headed next. Sure enough we have a family of robins in the front yard with a family of black colored birds in the back. Awww ... isn't love grand?

The next morning, as I opened the blinds I noticed a number of black colored birds outside the kitchen window. There was a robin in their midst with a distinctly red breast. Remnants of that-which-I-learned-as-a-child surfaced to the tip of my consciousness as I admired this robin, identifying it as a male. As I watched the birds scavenge for bugs, I didn't notice the incoming robin with a twig in its mouth and a more muted tone of red (obviously female, right?). She swooped in and her body language translated to human had me imagining her tweeting, "What in the heck are you doing here lazing about when I'm busy building our home?!" Poppa Robin immediately flew off and Momma stopped for a little breakfast before flying off. 

Canada geese are my favorite highway attraction. I fear icy, snowy road conditions when driving in the winter. When spring arrives, watching birds is my most dangerous driving hazard. They have paired off and each couple appeared to have their own stretch of real estate and I often spot them grazing in a field. Usually one is eating while the other is on high alert with its neck fully extended. 

(Pictures that follow were taken on a June day several years ago)
Note one goose on guard duty as the others are free to graze.

Where you see one goose, there is always another. This past week, I have noticed the bird groupings have increased to four to six. My novice bird watching skills has me wondering if these parents are getting close to having their goslings and are arranging co-parenting support groups. My "knowledge" is based on photos I took of Canada geese in June, so just a little beyond our present date.

This pair of birds must have been assigned daycare duty while the rest of their extended family took a break.

What a sight to behold ... moments that set my heart aflutter.

As I immerse myself in whatever sideshow Nature has in store, I find a childlike quality within myself coming to the surface as I make up little stories about what I see. Long forgotten facts drift to the surface as what I witness triggers little neurons of knowledge from long ago. I feel the weight of the world lift off my shoulders as I am amazed by the miracle of life, instinctual behavior which has resulted in survival of generations of wildlife who manage to populate this world of ours without creating the havoc of their human counterparts.

Saturday, May 28, 2022

Random Idea Day

It was exactly one year ago today when an incoming text from my middle child changed the trajectory of our lives forever. "Random idea for you to think about..." Perhaps my most favorite seven word combination of all time.

I love the presentation of an idea that is worded in such a manner. It allows the person on the receiving end the freedom to consider, to ponder and wonder. No pressure - just some food for thought.

Random idea. A lovely phrase. I believe that is what I like best about sitting still with my own thoughts. The freefall of ideas that come to a person while in the shower, out for a walk or gazing off into the sky without the diversion of real-life thoughts. Random ideas can be nurtured or left alone. 

The words "random idea" conjure up all the best of the best transitions within life as I have lived it. The standout moments of my life were all planted with the seeds of random thoughts. 

In a world which has been dictated by pandemic restrictions, ethnic biases, viral propaganda spreading skewed information to purposefully sway opinions, I truly believe Random Idea Day should be an international holiday. If all information was spread in a manner in which one was simply invited to ponder without spreading fear, hate and bias I believe it could change the trajectory of where we go from here.

Friday, May 27, 2022

Making a Bed Around a Cat Tutorial

Living with cats requires some accommodations. Living with cat hair is perhaps the only thing I don't love about living with our furry felines.

One of our cats favorite daytime napping spots is on my bed. Despite all efforts, dealing with the cat hair accumulation is an exercise in futility.

Awww ... so sweet, isn't it?

But Jet prefers to sneak in under the covers (note the little bump under the covers in the picture above) to share the wealth of hair on top of and IN my bed.

So, I decided to adorn my bed with a bed sheet during the day and securely tucked the top of the sheet at the top of the bed to deter any sleeping "under the covers".

This worked. For a while. Then this happened: 


Where there is a will, there is a way.

Jet in for the win. Again. I keep trying, while Jet is scheming to plot his next move.

The following is a typical morning-in-the-life with Jet and me. Jet doing what cats do best - napping. Me? I'm just trying to make the bed around a resting cat. Who wins the battle?


I think it's a tie.

Thursday, May 26, 2022

Routines Revised

This morning's routine did NOT work. I will not repeat life this way tomorrow.

The intention: walk, then write. 

What happened: walk; laundry; cat litter & related chores; eating toast at the kitchen table without distractions; hearing a bird I wanted to identify with my bird sound identifier app (i.e. becoming distracted); start a blog post but got too long winded so started all over again; decided my Making a Bed Around a Cat video would be a wiser choice; file too big to share; downloaded an app to shrink video file; saved to my computer and figured out how to speed up playback speed; tried to upload video onto blog but it was the wrong file type; saved video as another file type; blog did not finalize the upload; so tried yet another file type; success at last.

My morning started by walking out the door at 5:45 a.m. It is now 8:59 a.m. I have walked, washed a load of laundry, ate breakfast and come up with a blog post.

Teaser alert: The video finally uploaded but I will not post that blog until tomorrow. 

Tomorrow's routine will consist of writing FIRST, then walking. If at first you don't succeed, try try again.

The next day's goal will be to write about something a little more important than "all of the above"

Wednesday, May 25, 2022

Setting Intentions

I sat down and had a good, stern talk with myself one morning a few days ago. I came up with a list of intentions. I may have set too many. But I tried to make each and every one of them attainable.

It sounds easy:

  • Walk
  • Water 
  • Write
  • Limit TV/Netflix
  • MINDFUL eating only (cut out eating in front of the TV, while at the computer or reading)
  • Read
  • Putter
  • Initiate (notes/letters/email; invitations; seek out something new/different)
NOTE: Absolutely NONE-OF-THE-ABOVE cost one penny!

So far, I have managed four out of the eight. Not bad but there is room for improvement.

Writing - that is a big one for me. I have been half-hazardly hand writing three, 8-1/2" X 11" morning pages in a semi sorta on-again-off-again manner. I can do better than that. So? Here I am. Back on my blog.

When I started this blog, my goal was to write once a day. Focus on the positive. Live my days so I had something to write about (i.e. NOTICE the little things daily). Little stories. Write purposefully and attempt to wind up each post with a succinct finish that made my words worth reading.

I have strayed far off the mark and recently simply stopped posting. 

I am back. I plan to stay. By blogging, I become accountable. Accountable to show up, live each day in the moment so I have something fresh to bring to the page, focus on positive and up-lifting moments and make an attempt to wind up my thoughts with a summary worth reading. 

Those are a lofty set of goals. I am rusty but I will give it my best shot. I can tell I'm already making some headway. I am noticing "nature" again. I am stopping to listen and watch the world like I did in my days of daycaring. I have picked up the phone and initiated contact with friends and family. I am getting my feet wet and initiating invitations &/or suggestions.

I have been lost. COVID restrictions kept me where I was comfortable. It is time to peek out of this protected little shell I've built around myself and step back into the world. Would you like to join me? Please do. I do believe a better way of living life is out there if we simply open our eyes, ears and door so we can meet life half way.